WE HAVE NOT YET APPRECIATED WOMEN
Recently while attending a Peace Journalism lecture, the tutor asked a fundamental question that apparently most of my classmates including me are yet to find an answer. ”can a woman be raped within marriage?” He asked. This forms my basis on the issues to be looked into as we celebrate the International Women’s Day, today.
However, there is little to celebrate because we have not done enough to elevate women to viable positions in country. For a long time our treatment of women has been based on old barbaric traditions that have since been overtaken by time and events. I must admit albeit reluctantly, that the struggles and gains made by women in our country have gone unnoticed or ignored. Our perceptions on women are simply corrupt and unfounded, in the end, we are blinded to an extend that our parliament consist of only 67 out of 349 members translating to a mere 19%.Caro Ndeti of Embu county is being fought by men from all directions because she is about to be sworn in as the first woman governor in Kenya.
We do not actually have a valid reason why we do not trust women in leadership despite being disapproved time and again. Case in point; Professor Olive Mugenda is almost single-handedly steering Kenyatta University to academic and development prosperity, Professor Wangari Maathai left a legacy in the world that has no match when it comes to environmental advocacy , Cecilia Mwangi has a big heart, she is fighting the jiggers menace in our country, Mama Cecilia Muga (digital granny),65, from Migori county can ride a motorcycle, a car and operate a computer at ease. She can can type 20 words per minute. For her endeavors, Bidco Oil Rifinery Company in partnership with Jordan foundation has appointed her an ICT ambassador to empower women in Migori and most parts of western Kenya.(The standard on Saturday 8th March 2014,page 24-eve woman).I do not need to say anything about Lupita Nyong’o, just read the newspaper headlines, even tomorrows’. There are many great feats that women have scaled, including your mum (you).
To be so cruel are the statistics on women in our country. Women form 52% of the total population of our country (census 2009).Only 1% of the total land in Kenya is owned by women although a significant rise is expected with the advent of the new constitution. While agriculture forms the backbone of our economy, it’s unfortunate that 70% of labor in this sector is provided by women (The Daily nation on Saturday 8th march 2014 page 3.)We have refused to understand that countries with more gender equality have a better economic growth. Even for existence of peace cannot be dreamt of without involving women in making key decisions, indeed, US secretary of state John Kerry agrees that women bear the greatest burden of war but little or no voice in peace fostering processes. Interestingly, these burdens on women are sometimes inflicted by men with the most saddening case highlighted by the Kenyan media last year on 18 girls as young as eleven years impregnated within one year in Chepkurkur Primary school in Mt Elgon,Bungoma county.That expose , I bet was cruel for any mother to bear.
We can therefore overturn this fate as a country by first changing our minds, then laws. Women can do as much as men can, even better. How about St Brigids Girls - Kiminini in Trans Nzoia county beating all schools in the country to the top in KCSE 2013 Religious Education? So, let us all mark this year’s international women day with actions, not gender factions. Brigham Young said that; ‘You educate a man; you educate a man. You educate a woman; you educate a generation.’
By Korir Kennedy


